faq's - kissing

A. First of all don't panic. It’s great that you and your girlfriend have been focusing on other aspects of your relationship rather than the physical aspect. This will make your relationship stronger. Don’t get too stressed out about the first kiss with your girlfriend - the more you worry, the harder it will be.

The best thing to do is to try not to think about it too much. Concentrate on having fun together, hold her hand, surprise her sometime with a short kiss on the cheek or lips, and see how that goes! Your girlfriend could be as worried as you! Just remember everyone has been at the first kiss stage at one time, and there are other people out there who know exactly how you feel. So keep concentrating on your friendship!

Q2. It's me again. I'm very grateful for your reply but it didn't completely answer my question. What I really wanted to know was what to I do when kissing a girl, e.g. what do I do with my tongue?

A. Sorry you felt we didn't answer your question properly the first time. No one can tell you what makes a good kiss, you will find yourself that it comes naturally - just remember to relax. I guess the point I was trying to make in my last answer was that kissing is not the most important way to show affection to your girlfriend.

Speaking as a girl I love guys to pay me compliments, listen and express an interest in me, buy me small gifts and give me hugs. You don't need to get too into kissing to impress her. Its important to realise that the kissing you're talking about is a lot more passionate than normal kissing and can lead you down a road that you may not want to go down and subsequently you may loose focus on what's most important in your relationship - i.e. your friendship.

If you really like this girl relax get to know her, enjoy spending time together and make kissing the least important part of your relationship. This will in turn make your relationship stronger and help you avoid situations that may endanger your health as well as your relationship.

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