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Sexual Abuse

   

Q1. Who can you talk to when you have been sexually abused, and you don't want to go to the police?

A. As I am unsure whether you are writing as a result of personal experience of sexual abuse or on behalf of a friend I am answering as I would to you if it were you who experienced the pain of abuse. 

When someone has been abused sexually they have been through a terribly painful experience and may well have a whole mixture of different feelings and emotions.

Can I say first that whatever your past experience you are not to blame for what happened.  

Secondly can I restate what we said at the “love for life” presentation that whatever your experience or situation “you are a very special and unique individual.”  Don’t undervalue yourself no matter how you feel or what happened to you in the past.  

Thirdly, can I encourage you to ring;

  • Nexus
     :Belfast, (028) 9032 6803
     :L'Derry, (028) 7126 0566
     :Enniskillen, (028) 6634 4105
     :Portadown, (028) 3835 0588

  • NSPCC
     :0800 800 500

 ... who offer a counselling service for anyone who has been sexually abused in the past.  The Nexus telephone number is in the phone book.  Alternatively, could you talk with a teacher within the pastoral care side of things at school?  It is sometimes difficult to make the first move regarding asking for help, but certainly it will often ease the pain to talk through your situation with someone who is experienced to help and can support you.

Help, support and counselling is available and I would encourage you to take things further by ringing one of the above numbers.

You are a special person.


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